RE: Re: my child types...Steve Miller, Alvin Lee and the Guess Who

-----Original Message-----
From: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]On
Behalf Of Tom Smith
Sent: Thursday, October 13, 2005 4:48 PM
To: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: Re: [Autismlist] Re: my child types...Steve Miller, Alvin Lee
and the Guess Who




--- autisticdreaming <autisticdreaming@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:

> yeah ,well while your post was sent to that group mostly song lyrics.
>
> my entire post and my childs was posted as well. thats why i dont
> sign anything anywhere anymore. you never know who or when you get
> crossposted somewhere else unwittingly. thats internet though. theres
>
> no real regulating that. i now know that anything i post anywhere may
>
> end up crossposted somewhere else whether i like it or not.

Finally someone gets it!!  Atta boy/girl ABCD.

> even in a forum where i feel safe at i know theres no real way of
> regulating who can crosspost from theres. i dont like it especially
> with my childs writing but i reali8ze theres naught much i can do
> about it when its done.

If I was Ben or your child, I would want someone to read what I said!!

*** Someone did read it.  here.  It's not your decision to make on where,
what, and who he posts to.

I FC'd for two years and NO ONE READ IT including the facilitators!!

**** 8^/

We have to get real here.

**** We're as real as real can be.  Let's get realer.  You used the post to
platform something else.  It's done.  Nothing can undo it.  I hope it helped
the cause & that it sparks some interest in the autism/earth connections.

> all i can do is stop posting anything
> relevant. which i will. live and learn. i'll keep to the smaller
> safer forums with her stuff. it's just too much to expect that a
> response in one group will remain in that group. i sure as hell
> wasn't happy that i and my child ended up getting crossposted there.
> but realize its the risk i take when i post on a public forum..
>
> remaining ABCD with good reason.

Yeah, and your daughter will remain ?????????

Why do I bother?

***   Best not to judge.   This is not the only forum Ben does or ever has
posted on. Ben's not hidden away, languishing somewhere forgodsake.  He has
posted here & other places for almost 3 years.  It's common sense.  If you
must and feel it's important to do so - do it in a different way.  Take care
to remove the full e-mail identifiers.  You have agreed to do so.  I will
take you on your word.  I was upset - but believe I was polite and stated my
objections without being offensive.  I hope this was so.  Again, you have
agreed, so end of story on my part.

~*~ Tink

Tom

> --- In autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Tink" <tink.lecuyer@xxxx> wrote:
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> [mailto:autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]
> On
> > Behalf Of Tom Smith
> > Sent: Wednesday, October 12, 2005 5:18 PM
> > To: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > Subject: [Autismlist] Re: my child types...Steve Miller, Alvin Lee
> and
> > the Guess Who
> >
> >
> > --- In autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Tink" <tink.lecuyer@xxxx>
> wrote:
> > >
> > > You know I support the men's movement.  Step off platforming can
> > work;
> > > HOWEVER - Let's ask Ben's permission before crossposting to
> groups
> > he did
> > > not point out.  thanks!
> > >
> > > He remarks:  "sit down in your Thinking Chair and think - think -
> > think.
> > > when you use your mind, you take one step at a time."  [blue's
> > clues]
> >
> > Yep, that's what I did and I said to myself, "There was only song
> > lyrics on that post.  What's the big deal?"
> >
> > Tom
> >
> >
> > ~*~well.  if it had been *just* the lyrics - that would be fine.
> my full
> > e-mail was posted in the contents.  I had a moderate gasket blow
> out when I
> > saw that.  Asking if it's "okay" is not only courtesy & respectful
> of
> > boundaries and personal information - it's wise.   I think it would
>
> have
> > been a-okay to have written something like:  "one of the autie
> children on
> > my autism group posted these lyrics "whatever" in response
> to "whatever" - I
> > have no problem with that.  On the way Ben posts:  context, timing,
> > direction - makes a difference in impact & meaning of the message.
>
> I think
> > no harm done - but ask respectfully that my full e-mail is *not*
> disclosed
> > in things you want to crosspost, particularly to groups we do not
> post on or
> > are not members of.  s'aright, senor?  thank you.
> >
> > > ~*~ tink
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> [mailto:autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]
> > On
> > > Behalf Of Tom Smith
> > > Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2005 7:23 PM
> > > To: autismlist@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx; aum@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx;
> > > MS-DISCUSSION@xxxx
> > > Subject: RE: [Autismlist] my child types...Steve Miller, Alvin
> Lee
> > and
> > > the Guess Who
> >
>
>
>
>
>




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